Tuesday, February 5, 2013

stay connected

"It's about connections. I want to connect with people. I want to make them think, 'yeah, that's how I feel.' If I can do that, that's an accomplishment." - Carole King, Singer, Songwriter

Think about all of the things you feel a strong connection with. Personally, I think of the people and places that I've learned to love over the years. You might think of your family, friends, hometown, or maybe even your car. Each of us start to feel these strong connections mainly by building relationships and spending time. How do we stay connected though? 

We may think the most common ways to stay connected involve technology; phones, social networks, or email. Another way you might choose to stay connected is by sending letters or post cards. However, in my opinion, the most genuine way to stay connected to the people in your life is by understanding what is most important to them.

Make an effort to build a connection with each of your guests by learning and understanding what they feel is most important. Then, give them the means to stay connected to those things. Facilitating your guest's connections will set you apart. People will return to your property because they feel connected, even though they might be a million miles from home.

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

stay warm

"May you have warm words on a cold evening, a full moon on a dark night, and a smooth road all the way to your door." - Irish Blessing

This winter season is, naturally, a cold one in western New York. The cold air here often makes me think about and desperately try to remember what warm feels like. Why is that?

Think about cold. Not just cold temperatures, cold emotions too. What comes to mind? A frown, bills, bank lobbies, being sick, hospital waiting rooms, ice cubes, snow, a letter addressed to "whom it may concern", policies and procedures, a waitress who forgets who ordered which meal, or the woman at the DMV yelling, "next!" at a line of impatient people. Cold is uninviting.

Now think about warm. When I think about warm, I think about: hot coffee or chocolate, the smell of wood burning in the fireplace, my toes in the sand on the beach, a fleece blanket, chicken noodle soup, fresh-cut grass, a smile, a genuine greeting, a candle burning on the night stand, a hand-signed note, a hug from a child, a postcard from a friend, or a massage after a long day. Warm is desirable.

Each of us have the desire to feel warm. It's up to us to help our guests feel warm, in every way. Remember their name, welcome them back, leave them a hand written message upon arrival, greet everyone with a smile and a firm hand shake. Listen to each guest's request and be genuine when you respond. A guest who has felt warmth at your property will return to feel it again; this is in their nature.

Monday, January 14, 2013

to reach our potential

"Never underestimate the power of dreams and the influence of the human spirit. We are all the same in this notion: the potential for greatness lives within each of us." - Wilma Rudolph, Olympic Track
Star

Think of reaching your potential as being the best you can be. Working toward your potential can be done by  working toward achieving your goals, or striving to look good in the eyes of your peers, your boss or your loved ones. Reaching your potential is something that we all may define very differently.

Our guests may define reaching their potential by having a successful meeting, accumulating enough reward points to take their family on vacation, a great workout every morning at the hotel before heading off to work, or simply having a relaxing evening after work with room service and a movie.

Your co-workers may define their potential as loving their job, providing for their family through hard work, getting the promotion, or sending their children to college.

It is obvious that we all would love to reach our potential. The way we each define our potential is inspired by personal goals and values. By working to identify the goals and desires of the people we deal with at work, we can make a huge impact. Pay attention to what motivates your guests and your co-workers, and do everything you can to accommodate them. Give your associates the tools to succeed and your guests the attention they deserve.

Help the people around you reach their potential; you will soon reach yours.